--- title: "Dating and debt: Love in a cost of living crisis" date: 2024-11-07T10:48:00-05:00 canonical_url: "https://grantthorntonlimited.ca/en/debt-help-resources/articles/article-dating-and-debt-love-in-a-cost-of-living-crisis" section: Articles --- [ Back to the hub ](https://grantthorntonlimited.ca/en/debt-help-resources/articles) # Dating and debt: Love in a cost of living crisis ![Couple discussing debt and finances on a coffee date](https://pr-assets.grantthorntonlimited.ca/craftcmsimages/Article-imagery/Web-image-square/_articleHero/13782/dating-debt-square.webp) Despite what Hollywood might want us to think, money plays a leading role in the pursuit of love. While society has shifted from doweries and breadwinners to splitting the bill on a first date, **98% of Canadians** still believe that financial stability is necessary for a happy and successful relationship. With the average Canadian owing more than $21,000 of non-mortgage debt, does love truly not cost a thing? To explore this topic, we asked Canadians their thoughts on dating with debt and how important finances are to a relationship. ## Finding your other half Can you “go steady” without financial stability? **Four out of five Canadians** claim to take finances into account when searching for a potential partner. Does love *really* not cost a thing? **One in five Canadians** say they’ve had to cut back or stopped dating completely because of money issues. ![](https://pr-assets.grantthorntonlimited.ca/craftcmsimages/Additional-imagery/_articleFeature/13854/Dating-with-debt-infographic-copy.webp)## When to discuss debt in a relationship Till debt do us part? **One third of Canadians** have had a romantic relationship negatively impacted by debt. To prevent this, **most Canadians (55%)** prefer to discuss finances before moving in together. An **additional 35%** prefer to have the money talk before becoming "official" or "exclusive". ![](https://pr-assets.grantthorntonlimited.ca/craftcmsimages/Additional-imagery/_articleFeature/13822/Slide-2.webp)## Staying together for financial reasons You, me, and the economy. **One in four Canadians** have stayed in an unhappy relationship for financial reasons. The top financial concerns keeping unhappy couples together are **cost of living, rent, shared assets,** and **debt**. **Another quarter of unhappy couples** stay together to avoid the cost of divorce. [Learn what divorce could mean for your finances.](https://grantthorntonlimited.ca/en/debt-help-resources/articles/what-happens-to-debt-in-divorce) ![](https://pr-assets.grantthorntonlimited.ca/craftcmsimages/Additional-imagery/_articleFeature/13823/Slide-3.webp)## Debt isn’t a dead end. Debt can be an isolating experience, but it shouldn’t hold you back from enjoying or creating relationships, whether romantic or not. If you’re ready to start a new relationship with your money, our debt solutions professionals are here to help. With the help of a Licensed Insolvency Trustee, you can take back control of your financial future through a [bankruptcy](https://grantthorntonlimited.ca/en/bankruptcy/what-is-bankruptcy) or [consumer proposal](https://grantthorntonlimited.ca/en/consumer-proposal/what-is-a-consumer-proposal). 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